We speak here about fear, and how one learns to overcome it, and about how one learns in general.
As my friend Charlie says, “fear is the product of an undisciplined mind.” Therefore it can be eliminated through the application of discipline. If you always have perfect discipline, you can stop reading now. End of story.
But since nobody does, let’s think about fear objectively. Since we’re not scared about anything right at this moment, we suppose that is possible.
Most traders have at least a passing acquaintance with fear and for some it is their daily companion.
Fear is a natural instinct. We come into the world hard-wired for fear, as do all animals.
Fear serves us by placing us on full alert when our senses tell us danger is about. Fear is prompted by danger perceived and alerts us to the further possibility of danger and prepares us for instant action. It is inevitable that we will experience fear from time to time; we are familiar with it and we are rarely surprised by the fact of its existence, though its sudden appearance may be unexpected.
But no matter how comfortable or common fear is, we are certain of one thing. If you experience fear while you are trading you are doing something wrong.
Like other emotional reactions, fear is inappropriate to trading. It plays no constructive role there. Fear distorts perception, causes you to freeze, and can push you into some extremely bad decisions.
You can learn to rid yourself of fear, and to overcome it, or to control it. Fear in trading belongs packed away in the box of things that you have left behind in your past, like your baby teeth, or your belief in Santa Claus. Properly dealt with, fear can be reduced to an occasional appearance in the guise of its weak cousin, mild anxiety, and in that form is a useful adjunct to maintaining an alert state of mind.
Fear can be overcome when one has the tools and the knowledge and the experience to take the threat out of a trading situation. When the situation has little threat, you are not likely to be totally unaware. You are unlikely to be under the total control of your emotions. Therefore you can take action to deal with your emotional situation, as you are constantly monitoring yourself. And as we know, monitoring is what lets you get a handle on what is going on at all times.
What kinds of fear exist?
Generally speaking, fear is the intense worry that something important to you will be lost, something that you are not ready to give up. It may be fear for your life, it may be fear of a financial loss. Sometimes we speak of “fear of success†which is really a fear of losing those parts of your life that are familiar to you as you change and become more successful. To avoid those psychic losses you arrange not to make too much money. The most common fear in trading may be the fear of losing more money than you planned to lose. Mark Douglas points out that many traders also experience fear of being wrong, or a fear of missing out on a move, or a fear of leaving money on the table. To be sure, all of these fears are real.
What about the “freeze�
The freeze is fear that makes you immobile. Most traders have experienced the freeze sometime in their trading career. The metaphor comes from the deer frozen in the headlights, overwhelmed with fear, stuck and unable to take action while the huge 18-wheeler bears down on the deer at 70 miles an hour. In trading the freeze usually comes over the trader who has not anticipated that the market could move again him, or move against him to the degree or with the speed with which it just has. The deer freezes before the oncoming truck because he has a stimulus for which he has not planned and has no naturally prepared action in response; he can’t decide what to do and so he just shuts down and gets creamed by the truck. Bye-bye Bambi.
The trader in the midst of a freeze has the same etiology. He has not anticipated the situation, is suddenly in over his financial head, has no plan of escape, can’t process the information, and just sits there like a big dumb klutz until the market takes sufficient blood out of his backside that a panicked and damaging exit ensues.
How might we handle situations like this?
Fear that is intense is really a mild fear writ large. It is the same animal, just bigger. There are in fact many techniques for handling fear as a trader. We offer the following as a mix-and-match menu for those who wish to take up a period of residence in the Fear Rehab Clinic.
Fear cannot grow in an environment that you fully understand. If you have planned for every contingency, you have visualized all of the possible moves that the market can make for or against you. If you envision all possible scenarios and review your anticipated response to those scenarios, then no matter what happens you will know what to do. This has a salutary effect on fear. In fact, it eliminates it.
If you are a less experienced trader you can also physically rehearse your actions in addition to running through them in your mind. It seems strange to think that one can benefit from physically rehearsing the action of picking up and dialing the telephone, or of placing an order quickly on your computer, but there you have it. Under conditions of fear your ability to do normal things is impaired, and you cannot afford impairment in the markets.
Don’t let the mental nature of trading carry over into physical passivity during trading hours. In other words, don’t just sit and look at the screen. You can become hypnotized and temporarily paralyzed. Don’t lean back and become static. Get up and walk around. Wash your face, spit three glasses of water in the sink. Make a little noise or a big noise. Move, be active, don’t let yourself fall back into a passive mode where thoughts can run in circles and the circles run you.
Fear is nurtured by greed. Fear flourishes when traders step beyond their money-management rules and try to make a killing. When over-leveraged and margined-up within an inch of his life, the trader has made himself vulnerable to a slight market reverse. If the market moves the against him, the trader finds that he or she is losing much, much more money than he or she anticipated and fear blossoms out like an exploding drum of diesel fuel.
Fear cannot exist if you trade within your means, by which we mean that any loss possible is a loss you can withstand with equanimity and aplomb. I have more to say about such things in the essays about money management but for the moment just consider: if you have a million dollars of risk capital and you lose $5,000, you are not disturbed, your mental health remains unaffected. If you have risk capital of $12,000 and you lose $5,000, you mental health is likely on the rocks for a while, and when you start to trade again you will be more, not less, susceptible to fear. If you wish to be free of fear, arrange your trading such that the largest possible loss you can experience is one or two percent of your risk capital, and your risk capital is 30 percent or less of your net worth. This is the road to wealth without anxiety.
Fear is a corollary of ignorance. The enemies of fear are knowledge, insight, and preparation. If you wish to be free of fear, learn all about the thing that you fear, remove the conditions which permit it to take hold, and practice and prepare for those moves which take you out of danger.
We learn about fear the same way we learn about anything else  in bite sized chunks. When you were a student you doubtless groaned upon occasion when you first understood that during the course you had to master five or six hundred pages of technical detail. But how much louder would you have groaned if you were presented with all that information all at once, and had to master it in a single day? Bite-size chunks can tame the most fearful challenge.
Courage is helpful when dealing with fear. We do not mean “nerves of steel†and other light-weight descriptions of what non-traders think trading is all about. Instead we mean that it can take a bit of courage to openly identify and work through our fears, so that they are vanquished and put away in that box with our memories of Santa Claus and our baby teeth. First we must face up to our fears, and then we must face them down. This is best done bit by bit, steadily, over time, with careful focus on what we are doing, and why. Two of the great ancient aphorisms are applicable here : “Know Yourself,†and “Verify Everything for Yourself.â€Â
Fear is a special case of negative thoughts, and can be dealt with using the same techniques I discussed in another essay – exaggeration, cutting off, making fun of, and so forth.
All of the above techniques have been tested by many and are not offered as casual nostrums but as pragmatic, specific, and necessary methods for eliminating fear in your trading.
Fear is an expensive companion. Fear is a leach that will feed upon your profits. You can dis-invite this expensive stow-away by applying disciplined and thoughtful self-examination, and taking the appropriate steps. And most of all, by trading within your means.
We know of a woman who lived with two great fears all of her life. For whatever reason, presumably some deeply experienced but now forgotten childhood event, she was deathly afraid of worms. And she was deeply fearful of large bodies of water – lakes and rivers and oceans and such. This woman worked as an emergency room nurse and could keep her cool in the midst of multiple car-crash trauma victims, massive gun shot wounds, heart attacks, bloody and life-threatening emergencies of every nature and complexity. But the thought of worms brought on a panic attack, as did the thought of getting in a boat and moving away from the dock.
She determined in middle age to overcome her fears, to face up to them and then to face them down. She broke her fears down into their smallest components, and then attacked each section one by one. Slowly, over a period of time, she turned her fear of open water into swimming, and then into boating, and then into scuba diving, and then into diving into shipwrecks and into holes and coral reefs and tight places where she had to pull her body on a rope down against the current, and then into diving into wrecks at night. The key? Taking things step by step, and not trying to overcome the phobia/fear all at once.
With this fear conquered, she tackled the fear of worms by repetitive dives in and among eels in the tropical seas off Bahrain. At first she dove during the day, and then at night, letting the slimy creatures brush against her, and she not able to see where they were and what they were doing during the whole time.
The point is, if you take things step by step, you can face up to things at their worst, that is the very worst that you can imagine. Step by step, we face up to things by putting our head down and pushing right on through to the other side (to mix a heady metaphor). Fears cannot stand being embraced.
So embrace your fear, live with it, stick your head in the stinking mouth of death and laugh at it, because your fear is only fear and it is an emotion which can be de-fanged and weakened. The object that is feared will still be there – the eels are real, after all, and water can be dangerous, and yes, people do drown sometimes. But the debilitating emotion of the fear will not be there, only the remnants of it, the ashes if you will. You can get rid of many if not most panics, fears, inhibitions, reluctance, and so forth by “walking through the wall of fire†and proving to yourself the irrationality of the fear.
Of course some fears are based deep in unconscious experiences and are not susceptible to these techniques and it is in these situations where psychiatrists can help understand and overcome deep-rooted conflicts and neuroses. Skilled professionals can be immensely helpful in some cases, but do guard against becoming dependent on them. It’s bad for trading.
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